Soft Rituals That Brought Me Back to Myself

 




Not everything that heals has to be loud. Sometimes, the most meaningful shifts happen in silence — in the quiet between small choices we make for ourselves. For me, those moments became rituals. And those rituals slowly brought me home.

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Below are some of the things — objects and habits — that helped me feel softer, more present, and a little more like myself. If they resonate with you too, I’ve linked where you can explore them further. 

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๐ŸŒฟ Mornings in Fresh Air & Soft Layers

Lately I’ve been reaching for a blush zip-up pullover when I head out for short walks. It's cozy, light, and goes with everything I already love — messy buns, matcha, and calm playlists. There's something grounding in the structure of it, in the oversized sleeves, in the way it makes me feel gently held.

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On slower mornings, I’ve added a little ritual with Award Winning Grace & Stella’s under-eye masks — chilled in the fridge, gold and soft. They do remind me that I’m worth a pause.

Grace & Stella Under Eye Masks

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๐Ÿง˜‍♀️ Tiny Habits That Stack & ๐ŸŽจ Things That Carry a Story

  • Yoga twice a week. Not because I have to, but because my body thanks me every time.

  • Eating with attention. Slower meals, fewer distractions. Letting food feel nourishing again.

  • Choosing a book instead of a screen at night.

  • Letting light in. Morning walks. No headphones. Just air.

I use a posture corrector sometimes, not as punishment, but as reminder: to open, to breathe deeper, to soften the hunch I carry on hard days.

Posture Support

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Shower steamers turned my tiny bathroom into a kind of retreat — fresh eucalyptus filling the space, softening the mood, giving me something to breathe in that wasn’t urgency.

Shower Steamers

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My mom is a painter. Her art has always been around me, woven into my sense of home. Wearing pieces that feature her work — like the Perspective bucket hat or the Dreamscape backpack — feels like a gentle kind of protection. Something old, something creative, something loved.

Bucket Hat

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Dreamscape Backpack

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๐Ÿงบ Everyday Things I Made Softer  & ๐ŸŽจ Colors On My Desk 

I designed a polka dot tote and matching backpack because I couldn’t find exactly what I wanted: soft guava pink with calm sage green. Now they come with me for errands, flower runs, and slow days.

Polka Dot Tote

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Polka Dot Backpack

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There’s a cup I always keep nearby too — sage green, minimal, and it weirdly helps me remember to hydrate. Even little routines like drinking more water feel different when they’re dressed in softness.

Stanley Tumbler – Sage Green

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Creating has always been my calm — the thing I turn to when I need stillness. Art tools aren’t just supplies; they’re part of my process, my rhythm. I’m genuinely grateful to have found ones that feel this good to use — they support not only the work I make, but the peace I find in making it. 

I keep using Golden Heavy Body Acrylics — the jars with crusted caps and bold pigments that still deliver. 

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๐ŸŒ™ Winding Down with Intention

Instead of scrolling in bed, I’ve been reading a few pages each night. I pair that with the Laneige Lip Mask — partly for the ritual, partly because it just feels kind. The texture, the scent — it’s like ending the day with a whisper.

Laneige Lip Mask

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I also keep a soft eye mask near my bed. It’s light, cushioned, and helps me find stillness — even during naps. It doesn’t block out the world. It just quiets it for a moment.

3D Soft Sleep Mask

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✧ Little Reminders That Helped Me Stay Soft

Some days, it wasn’t just the habits — it was the small, visible reminders that helped me stay grounded. Not because I forgot who I was, but because I was still learning how to be gentle with myself.

These aren’t just products. They became part of my rituals — like quiet notes I wore or sipped from, little affirmations I carried through the day.

✿ “Stay Grounded, Fly Often” Tee

This tee became a kind of mantra on days when I felt either too stuck or too scattered. It reminded me that I could be both rooted and expansive — that softness isn’t stillness, but balance.
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✿ “Soft Shell, Wild Soul” Tee

Wearing this felt like a declaration I didn’t have to say out loud. That I could be soft and strong, breakable and brave. I reached for it when I needed to feel safe in who I was becoming.
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✿ “Self Love Club” Mug 

Every morning starts here. It’s not just a cute mug — it’s the ritual of holding it in my hands while the world is still quiet. A reminder that love begins where you are.
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These aren’t miracle products. They’re just small things I return to — quiet details that helped me feel held while I learned to hold myself.

Maybe they’ll do something soft for you, too. ❤️

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